Adonis Golden Ratio Review Video

DUDE... If you are working out, and women AREN'T all over you, then you seriously need to check out this new program from John Barban and Kyle Leon Adonis Golden Ratio... As you may know, I've been working out for a long time, and this program is like nothing I've ever seen. The whole thing was designed, specifically to get you the type of body that has been scientifically proven to be the most attractive to women! SWEET! Hear all about it in this short video review I made for you:

I don't often recommend fitness training guides... But this one is definitely something that you want to be using. Here's the link to try it out: http://jvlikes.com/adonis

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Bad Boy Formula Review Review... You know I've been a big fan of Carlos Xuma's stuff for a long time now... The guy is an absolute sage when it comes to teaching this sort of "inner-game" alpha man self-confidence stuff.

If you think that you have even a little bit of "nice guy" in you then I would definitely recommend checking this out. The truth is nice guys really do finish last. And it's not because girls are "mean"... It's because women are hard-wired to respond and be attracted to men who possess certain attractive qualities that nice guys don't demonstrate and which bad boys have in spades!

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Joshua Pellicer Tao Of Badass Review

Hey, my assistant Carly just shot this video about why we recommend Joshua Pellicer's Tao Of Badass program...

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You can also read my original review of Josh's program over at: http://www.jakevandenhoff.com/reviews/the-tao-of-badass-review.html

We've been recommending Josh's program since it first came out because it's really, really good and we think it's a great resource.

How To Pick Up Girls At College

Hola, what's up?

Okay, sorry for that weird intro... LOL. Anyways, today I'm gonna be talking about how to pick up girls at college...

This is an extremely important topic for college guys who are looking to scoop up some young hot coeds and bring them back to your dorm room or apartment for some beer pong... let old Jake break it down for ya...

Granted, I graduated college roughly ten years ago... but I still remember it like it was yesterday... And I after that I went to grad school which is basically the same thing.

But enough about me, let's talk about how to pick up girls at college already!

So, the first thing to realize about college is that it's very different than high school... All those cliques that were so important back in high school don't matter any more at all. This is a completely fresh start!

Nobody knows you yet, for all these girls know you are the absolute man, and have crazy skills with women. So let's not disapoint them okay?

Here are a few quick rules for picking up girls at college that should give you a head start...

1) Meeting girls at college isn't really about "picking them up" and a lot of the PUA advice that you are going to find on the internet isn't going to really help you much to be successful with college girls, so I would avoid it... Except for one really great program that is lazer focused on being the man at your college called Conquer Your Campus

2) Social status is crucial, college game is for the most part all about social circle game... If you are hanging with cool dudes then you are going to have women lining up to party with you guys and Friday night is going to be all about deciding between bring Becky, Jenny, or Kaylie back to your room at the end of the night. I got lucky freshman year because the guys across the hall from me were older and already had a good social circle going so all I had to do was walk over there to meet new girls all the time...

3) Your style matters... a LOT! Yeah, style is always important for looking good to women, but it is especially important during your college years. Younger girls are highly tuned in to your sense of fashion and whether or not you have a sexy style. So take a long hard look at what the guys at your school who are good with chicks are wearing and see how you can borrow some of the cool stuff that they are doing and kind of imbue it with your own personal style that you should already be developing...

I could go on... but if you are looking for the real bible for getting it on like a ROCKSTAR at college check out that Conquer Your Campus book by Mark Redman I mentioned - LEGIT...

One Night Stands Playbook Review | Dean Cortez One Night Stands Masterclass

Hey, I just got finished pouring over a new product from Dean Cortez and wanted to share my One Night Stands Playbook review with you... The full name of the program is One Night Stands Masterclass, The Art Of Speed Seduction & Close... So Hows that for a mouthful? Nice working picking a title... LOL!

Anyhow, If you've been on this blog a lot you know that I'm a fan of Dean's work and I'll tell you why... Not only does ho know what he's talking about when it comes to dating, picking up women, dating younger women etc... But he also has that thing that a lot of the dating "gurus" in this dating realm lack... PERSONALITY.

That's right, Dean is an extremely personable likable dude... The kind of guy you just want to crack a brew with and scope out some chicks with, and his storytelling skills are awesome. If you haven't watched the video he made to promote this new One Night Stands Playbook watch it here, and listen to the story about the hottest girl that he had ever seen and how his buddy Dwayne hooked up with her instead of him... It's a great story and it makes a very important point.

But enough about that... Here's the low-down on Dean's One Night Stand Playbook a.k.a. One Night Stand Masterclass program, and why you should or should not get a copy...

Well, this program is, as the title implies all about hooking up with women fast, as in the first night that you meet them. that being said however, this doesn't mean that these stategies Dean teaches you for speed closing women only work for having one night stands. Not at all! In fact as you probably know, speed closing or hooking up with a woman the first night is actually probably the best way to start things off on the right foot with her if you want to have a relationship.

If you made it to this review I'll assume that you've already heard a little bit about this program, so I won't go over all of the content for you... But the major theme is of course, how to pick up women and bring them home the first night.

So basically what you are getting is the exact blueprint that Dean has come up with over the past 5 years of hanging out with some of the worlds best pick up artists, for picking up, and hooking up with women all in one night. He talks about how to create the "romantic bubble" that makes a one night stand possible, how to escalate in a way that feels comfortable and natural to her , and something that I thing is going to help a lot of guys are the word-for-word scripts you can use to overcome the most common objections women have to hooking up on the first night.

As usual Dean has put together a sick line up of bonuses with this program which he says are limited to the first number of guys who pick up his One Night Stand Playbook.

Honestly, the titles of some of these are pretty racy in nature, so I'm not going to list them here, but I think that they compliment this program to a tee! They cover things like how to help a woman unleash her wild side, how to hook up with two women at once, an interview with an ex pimp from the street smart seduction program, and Mark Manson aka PUA Entropy's secrets of closing.

You also get the One Night Stands Masterclass audio course so that you can listen to the whole thing on your ipod, in your car etc...

Overall I think that this is the best program on hooking up with women the first night available... There are a few others out there, but to be quite honest I never really looked into them because the guys behind these products just don't strike me as legit... So if this is a topic that interests you I would not hesitate to grab this program now and all the bonuses.

That said, if you are offended by strong language and don't like the idea of picking up hot women and bringing them home the first night you might do better with something a little more vanilla like a mainstream dating guide from amazon.com or something like that so you can learn how to get a woman's contact information so you a=can take her on a "coffee-date" or something like that...

But if you are ready to step up to the plate an start rocking one night stands like a rock star go grab Deans One Night Stand Playbook now... You can watch the video here, or if you already saw it here's the main page where you can get your copy

Facebook Pick Up Method Free Ebook By Derek Lamont PDF

Hey I just wanted to hop on her and mention a product that a lot of guys ask me about... The Online Game by Derek Lamont... Derek has some great tips for setting up your Facebook profile to attract women...

Like I said, I'm not that big of a Facebook guy when it comes to picking up women online, but I know that you guys want info on this stuff, so I wanted to hook you up with this Free copy of Derek Lamont's ebook The Facebook Pick Up Method.

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Facebook is a great place to meet women, I mean EVERYBODY is on that site these days and it just gets bigger everyday. I've met a ton of women on Facebook myself, but I quit using it to talk to women about a year ago because I was getting in a LOT of trouble on there... More on that some other time.

That being said, for most guys Facebook is a great way to meet women, get dates and so forth, and there definitely is a method to it. So get your copy of The Facebook Pick Up Method free through the link above, dude knows what's up when it comes to picking up girls on Facebook.

Plus, I'll send you a couple other related reports that I bet you'll like...

And if you want to check out Derek's main website Online Pick Up Secrets you can check that out here...

Talk soon,

Jake

Do Women Like Facial Hair?

One question a lot of guys ask me is "Do women like facial hair?" And it's a good question, I mean after all what's the point of growing a beard, mustache or goatee, if women aren't going to like it.

The truth is that some women do like facial hair a lot and others say they hate it... So you can't please everybody.

My general rule of thumb when I'm advising a client about whether or not to rock facial hair is whether or not the facial hair actually makes the guy look cooler than he would look without it.

Most guys facial hair unfortunately makes them look worse, so in most cases I end up telling guys to shave that crap off of their faces.

So if you are considering whether or not to wear facial hair this is what I'd tell you:

First, feel free to experiment. After all, you only live once. Why not find out how you look with some mutton chops or even a full beard. For all you know it could be a great look for you. So grow a beard and then go out and see what kind of reactions you get. Then try shaving it down into a goatee and see how the ladies like that. Remember, the great thing about facial hair is that it isn't permanent.

Second, No matter what kind of facial hair you try make sure to keep it neat. Unless the woman in question is a total deadhead hippy stoner, almost no girl in the world likes a dirty unkept beard. That's just grody. So keep it clean and trim around the edges every day or two to keep it looking cared for.

Third, The question shouldn't really be do women like facial hair, it should be are women ATTRACTED to facial hair. The truth is women say many things that aren't necessarily true. On a concious level a woman may THINK she dislikes facial hair, but she will actually be very attracted to you with a beard... Girls can be funny like that.

So play around with it and see what kind of feedback you get. Personally my girlfriend loves it when I have facial hair, but I find it scratchy and uncomfortable so I generally stay pretty freshly shaven...

Shoes That Attract Women

One little bit of attraction wisdom you hear repeated by just about everyone is the fact that the first thing a woman looks at when she is sizing up a man is his shoes. So, as a guy that wants to attract women it only makes sense to get a pair or two of shoes that attract women...

Now, I can't guarantee that the first thing a woman looks at is a guy's shoes... I've talked to many women about this, because I think it's a really interesting subject, and I've got a lot of different answers. The psychology behind women and shoes is pretty intense, and could fill a book. So I'm gonna skip all that and get down to the nitty-gritty.

Before I begin, I should note that obviously shoes aren't THE most important thing when it comes to attracting and picking up women. But, it is safe to assume that MOST women will take note of your shoes and you'll either get points or lose points depending on what type of kicks you are rockin'.

If you have tight game, you can wear that whackest shoes ever and still do good. That being said though, the right shoes can definitely help you out. In fact, rockin' ILL kicks will get you girls approaching you, complimenting your style and so forth, so I highly recommend wearing cool shoes at all times, except when you are barefoot...

So let's take a look at some shoes that attract women:

Straight-Pimpin' Shoes...

The shoes that are going to get you the most attention possible from women are shoes that very few other men have the balls or dough to wear. These are the kind of shoes that BALLERS wear. Usually these shoes will be made in Italy, and are made out of exotic animals like alligators
or ostriches. Now while these shoes are great for attracting women, there is one big con, the price. Also if you're gonna wear shoes like this you need to match them with some equally smooth gear. Pimpin' shoes go nice with a tailored suit...

Cowboy Boots...

Nothing says I'm a rock and roll badass like a pair of brightly colored cowboy boots. These will get you attention for sure. Now admittedly, these are not MY style at all and I can't imaging them being comfortable. However I know a bunch of guys who swear by Alligator Cowboy Boots
Also, cowboy boots and other types of boots will give you a couple extra inches of height. I'm 6'1" which isn't that tall, but that extra 2 inches I get from wearing my winter boots is really cool because it turn me into a legit tall guy.

Stylish Casual Sneaks...

These are my go to shoes. The best part is that there are a lot of casual sneaks that you can get really, really cheap. Like under 50 bucks so you can buy a bunch of pairs and they will stay looking fresh for a long time. Now a lot of different shoes fall into this catagory. Everything from a simple pair of Chuck Taylors, to Nike SB Dunks, just about any type of Pumas, to "surfer" kicks like Gravis sneakers . If you look around it's pretty amazing how many cool new shoe designs there are out there. I find that the more exotic my casual sneaks the more compliments they get. but I also like to get some "simple" casual sneaks like navy blue Jack Purcells.
They look sweet with jeans...

Shoes To Avoid:

I should also note that there are some shoes that can make you look pretty uncool. In most cases anything dirty or in really bad condition is going to make you look like a slob. A pair of dirty old white athletic shoes for instance just shoes that you give no thought to how you present yourself. Here are a couple more examples of bad shoes:

Boring Loafers...

The corporate look is not hot! Sure, some corporate chicks may like a buttoned down, loafer wearing, wire rimmed glasses look on a dude... but... barf. Don't do it! Ditto for khaki pants, and standard polo shirts.

Athletic Shoes...

I work out a lot, and I love athletic shoes. But they are really best left in the gym. I'll admit, that they are super comfy, and I do wear them out and about, but I readily admit that they aren't doing me any favors...

So, hopefully this has helped you to understand about wearing shoes that attract women.

Alright, talk soon...

Jake

How To Be Confident With Women

Yes, this is a serious topic... How to be confident with women. Many books have been written on the topic and many a PUA wannabe has hypothesized the best way to confident, but yet, for most men the answer remains elusive. So - I'm gonna take a stab at it here in 400 words or less!

Ok, first off, for our purposes it is important to fully understand what confidence IS and what it means to be confident...

Confidence = The outward projection of your belief in yourself.

So, when you act or appear confident, whether it's with a woman or a job interview or in any other situation, what you are doing is projecting your strong sense of self out into the world, where others will take note of it.

When you walk up to an attractive woman and start a natural unscripted conversation with her, this is a confident action. You are able to do this because you BELIEVE in yourself so much that you know that no matter what happens - it's gonna be okay, and you are going to be okay.

Guys who DON'T believe in themselves are usually unable to make confident moves like this because they doubt themselves... get it?

So, now that we've summed up WHAT confidence is, how can a guy BE confident with women?

The answer, is simple. In order to be confident and take confident action you need BELIEVE IN YOURSELF first.

I know, it sounds hard, but it's not. Not if you have a plan...

Everyone has the power to start or stop believing in themselves at any moment. The choice is up to you. Really, being confident with girls is just a matter of CHOOSING to believe in yourself and then making it a habit. It means LEARNING to like and appreciate yourself.

It's funny how being confident and smooth with women is actually much more of an internal thing than it is an external thing... Once your get to really like yourself, you really need very little in terms of "outer-game" to be successful with women. Conversation and flirting skills are vital, but the crazy thing is that in order to be a good flirt or a good conversationalist you need that core of confidence to back you up, it's like the backbone of your entire game.

Now if any of this is resonating with you, then your are probably wondering "OK, so how do I choose to believe in myself and appreciate myself?"

And there are a ton of ways to do this. One way I've found helpful is to really focus on my passions and actively go after my dreams.

When I'm working towards goals, and doing the things I love I'm having fun and I feel good about the path I'm on.

If I was sitting around getting fat and playing video games all day working at Walmart, I would NOT be feeling good about myself or my direction...

If you want to be successful with women, there is NOTHING more productive for you to do then focus on your passions, and learn to love yourself and see yourself as THE MAN! This will get you SO much farther than some "peacocking" outfits, or some lame brain PUA routine - believe that!

One last thing I wanted to touch on while we're on the subject is the idea of being cocky and funny with women. A few years back when David DeAngelo published Double Your Dating everybody got all swept up with the idea that attracting women was just a matter of being cocky with women and funny around women. And while I like the book a lot overall, I think that the whole cocky-funny thing got misconstrued by a lot of guys...

Ultimately cocky humor is just another way of showing women that you are a confident fun guy.

Now maybe for David D cocky funny is the way to go because it fits his unique personality... BUT, for guys who aren't natural ball-busters, trying too hard to be cocky-funny and throwing a bunch of "negs" can come of as rude or just plain weird.

Other guys with different kinds of personalities will naturally display their confidence and self-esteem to women in other ways. Maybe even by being the opposite of cocky and funny - what would that be? Humble and mellow? Whatever it is - with a confident backbone in place it'll get the job done.

I'm Thankful For It All Baby!

Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!

It's a great time of year, but, I know that a lot of guys out there feel bad about the fact that they don't have a special lady to be with over the holidays. so I wanted to write a special blog post about that today.

You know I've spent some lonely thanksgivings myself... I remember one year when I was around 22 and my whole family went somewhere and I stayed home because I had to work or something so I missed the big dinner.

I came home to an empty house (I was still living at home at the time) and made myself a plate of nachos, and that was my thanksgiving!

All my friends were with their ladies or with their families so I didn't have anybody to hangout with, and well, it kinda sucked.

It's easy to feel bad for yourself over the holidays when everyone else seems to have someone and you are all alone, but this "feeling bad for yourself" is actually just about the WORST thing that you can EVER do, if you want to be successful in life, particularly with women.

And I notice A LOT, A LOT of guys doing EXACTLY this. Feeling bad for themselves, and talk all this "whoa is me" stuff, "girls don't like me", "I can't get a girlfriend", "all my friends have girlfriends, what's wrong with me", "Oh I need to get laid", "oh there's something wrong with me that I can't get a girl", or a date, or some ass or whatever.

So, if that sounds like something you have been saying to yourself, do us both a favor and give yourself a BITCHSLAP!

That feeling sorry for yourself stuff is probably your biggest problem right there.

See if you focus on what you DON'T have, you make it into a bigger issue than it really should be, and you become preocupied by it. Then you also start looking at the world with this "scarcity mindset" where you are just seeing what is lacking in your life, and... this sets you up in a scarcity frame, where you attract more scarcity. UGH

The solution. is to focus on all the good things in your life. Things like your youth, your health, your wealth, your friends, your family, your pets etc... whatever it is that makes you happy in your life. Hey maybe you are old, poor, and in bad health, even then, there has got to be SOMETHING that you are thankful for, whatever you have got, focus on that and focus on how good it makes you feel that you have that stuff.

Then, when you run into a hot chick you would like to talk to, she won't see a black-hole of neediness and scarcity within you. Instead, she'll see a guy who appreciates all the good things in life and has a positive attractive attitude, and that will be attractive to her.

You know I get emails from guys all the time saying, "Hey I'd really like to get your book or do coaching with you, but nothing has worked for me before because I'm tool old, or too short, or too whatever, so how can I know if you are going to be able to help me?"

And THAT is their problem right there, they are focused on their inability to succeed and on their perceived "flaws", and they blow these things up into giant obstacles in there heads, and a self-fulfilling prophecy ensues.

I read a book a few years back that I found very helpful in thinking about all of this. Its called the TAO of Dating by Alex Benzer. In it, he talks extensively about how if you want something (like a sexy girl) you should be grateful for her BEFORE you get her...

Crazy huh, well it's actually totally awesome and if you are interested in a more philosophical way of looking at this whole "getting good with women" thing I highly suggest you check it out...

The kind of thinking he talks about in the book has helped me out a great deal!

Anyways, thanks for reading my blog, I really do appreciate it. And if you haven't already, sign up for my free Ecourse and Newsletter at the top of the page!

I'll talk to you soon

Jake

Flirting is Sexual Communication

Flirting... it's the dance of life baby. a crucial part of the whole attraction process. I think one of the most important parts of learning how to flirt the right way is learning how to be bold and subtle at the same time.

I know that sounds kinda crazy, but hear me out here... When I say bold I mean unashamed, you should never feel any shame over the fact that you are flirting or the things that you do or say in the process ogf flirting.

Shame is not attractive. You need to feel good about what you are doing and own it!

Most guys have no idea of what thwy can get away with when it comes to flirting with chicks, they have no idea just how hard and how far they can push the envelope, in fact that's what they NEED to do in order to create those sparks of excitment in a woman.

Ecspecially older dudes, older guys who haven't been around hot women for a while can easily be out of touch with where women are at these days as far as being sexually liberated, and "down-to-earth" if you will pardon that expression.

This is one area where younger guys who are still in college or have active social lives can have a really big advantage.

I remember when I went to college and I was living in the same building as all these girls I got to see how they lived up close and personal. I got to see the debauchery, the drunken hook-ups, the wild bed-hopping etc.. and then you have these other guys who are out of the loop trying to treat these girls like their shit doesn't stink and do all this stuffy "courting" type stuff.

It's no wonder why the aren't taken seriously.

But I'm rambling. Here's my point: Girls like bold men, they are used to bold men, and they can deal with bold men, you aren't going to scare a girl away by being bold. So, when you flirt, don't flirt like a wuss, flirting is SEXUAL COMMUNICATION, meant to communicate sexual interest, so don't be afraid show your sexual nature to women when you flirt with them, that's what this is all about!

And my other point, be subtle. yes, you can be subtle and sexual at the same time, in fact you need to be. Being subtle means not whipping your johnson out in public, it means being a soft and gentle. Don't eye-**** women so hard when you are doing your eye contact flirting, instead eye-make-love to them instead! Feel me?

Talk Soon

Jake

What Attracts Women Online?

What's up...

I just wrote a new article about what it is that attracts women online. It should be a good read for anyone whose starting out with online dating and trying to figure out the basics... Have a gander:

What Attracts Women Online?

If you don't know what you're doing, online dating can be a big waste of time and money.

However, if you can "crack the code" and figure out what attracts women online, internet dating can be a roller coaster ride of fun, passion, and wild sex. What's more... It can even lead you to the girl of your dreams!

So, what are the things that attract women online? And how can you leverage this knowledge to your advantage and start getting some love from the ladies? While common sense tells us that women like good looking men with decent incomes and high social status, there are other factors that can be even more powerful for attracting women...

Including: your masculinity, your attitude, and your ability to relate with women warmly and authentically.

So, Let's look at how you can feature these attractive characteristics in your online profile and pull tons of chicks:

1) Own Your Masculinity... Women want to be with a "MAN" not a boy and not a wussy wimp. This factor outweighs looks, money and social status except in the case of extreme gold-diggers and status seeking succubi. In my coaching practice, I find that 90% of the guys profiles I review really need to "man it up" a bit. This means not making needy statements, not appearing self-conscious in pictures, and not talking like a 13 year old boy!

2) The Right Attitude. Most guys strike out with women because they look at things completely wrong and have self-defeating attitudes. Although changing the ways that you think about life, women, and dating can take some effort on your part, the rewards are truly spectacular. Women respond best to men who can maintain an upbeat and unbeatable approach to life. You can call it "positivity" or an "abundance mind-state" but if you want to be maximally attractive to women, be sure to nurture your emotional state and stay amped about your life. No girl wants a glum or anxious guy and they will hit the back button fast if they see any signs of these in your profile.

3) Interpersonal Skills. This one trumps all... You've got to be able to talk to women and relate to them in ways that make them feel good and see you as an authentic man capable of a real connection. Women simply don't want to waste their time with guys who have a fake, awkward or sketchy vibe. And the last thing you ever want a woman to peg you as is a wanna-be pick-up artist. so definitely don't try to use any corny tactics on women, they can spot that b.s. coming from a mile away. The way you talk to women online is going to determine how they see you and whether the feel attraction for you. So don't blow it! I've got a program that's going to teach you exactly how to get your proverbial ducks in a row, and summon up a stampede of hotties.

So what do you think? Can you think of anything important I left of this list?
Till Next Time.
Stay Rugged
-Jake