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I just wrote a new article about what it is that attracts women online. It should be a good read for anyone whose starting out with online dating and trying to figure out the basics... Have a gander:
What Attracts Women Online?
If you don't know what you're doing, online dating can be a big waste of time and money.
However, if you can "crack the code" and figure out what attracts women online, internet dating can be a roller coaster ride of fun, passion, and wild sex. What's more... It can even lead you to the girl of your dreams!
So, what are the things that attract women online? And how can you leverage this knowledge to your advantage and start getting some love from the ladies? While common sense tells us that women like good looking men with decent incomes and high social status, there are other factors that can be even more powerful for attracting women...
Including: your masculinity, your attitude, and your ability to relate with women warmly and authentically.
So, Let's look at how you can feature these attractive characteristics in your online profile and pull tons of chicks:
1) Own Your Masculinity... Women want to be with a "MAN" not a boy and not a wussy wimp. This factor outweighs looks, money and social status except in the case of extreme gold-diggers and status seeking succubi. In my coaching practice, I find that 90% of the guys profiles I review really need to "man it up" a bit. This means not making needy statements, not appearing self-conscious in pictures, and not talking like a 13 year old boy!
2) The Right Attitude. Most guys strike out with women because they look at things completely wrong and have self-defeating attitudes. Although changing the ways that you think about life, women, and dating can take some effort on your part, the rewards are truly spectacular. Women respond best to men who can maintain an upbeat and unbeatable approach to life. You can call it "positivity" or an "abundance mind-state" but if you want to be maximally attractive to women, be sure to nurture your emotional state and stay amped about your life. No girl wants a glum or anxious guy and they will hit the back button fast if they see any signs of these in your profile.
3) Interpersonal Skills. This one trumps all... You've got to be able to talk to women and relate to them in ways that make them feel good and see you as an authentic man capable of a real connection. Women simply don't want to waste their time with guys who have a fake, awkward or sketchy vibe. And the last thing you ever want a woman to peg you as is a wanna-be pick-up artist. so definitely don't try to use any corny tactics on women, they can spot that b.s. coming from a mile away. The way you talk to women online is going to determine how they see you and whether the feel attraction for you. So don't blow it! I've got a program that's going to teach you exactly how to get your proverbial ducks in a row, and summon up a stampede of hotties.
So what do you think? Can you think of anything important I left of this list?
Till Next Time.
Stay Rugged
-Jake
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