Flirting is Sexual Communication

Flirting... it's the dance of life baby. a crucial part of the whole attraction process. I think one of the most important parts of learning how to flirt the right way is learning how to be bold and subtle at the same time.

I know that sounds kinda crazy, but hear me out here... When I say bold I mean unashamed, you should never feel any shame over the fact that you are flirting or the things that you do or say in the process ogf flirting.

Shame is not attractive. You need to feel good about what you are doing and own it!

Most guys have no idea of what thwy can get away with when it comes to flirting with chicks, they have no idea just how hard and how far they can push the envelope, in fact that's what they NEED to do in order to create those sparks of excitment in a woman.

Ecspecially older dudes, older guys who haven't been around hot women for a while can easily be out of touch with where women are at these days as far as being sexually liberated, and "down-to-earth" if you will pardon that expression.

This is one area where younger guys who are still in college or have active social lives can have a really big advantage.

I remember when I went to college and I was living in the same building as all these girls I got to see how they lived up close and personal. I got to see the debauchery, the drunken hook-ups, the wild bed-hopping etc.. and then you have these other guys who are out of the loop trying to treat these girls like their shit doesn't stink and do all this stuffy "courting" type stuff.

It's no wonder why the aren't taken seriously.

But I'm rambling. Here's my point: Girls like bold men, they are used to bold men, and they can deal with bold men, you aren't going to scare a girl away by being bold. So, when you flirt, don't flirt like a wuss, flirting is SEXUAL COMMUNICATION, meant to communicate sexual interest, so don't be afraid show your sexual nature to women when you flirt with them, that's what this is all about!

And my other point, be subtle. yes, you can be subtle and sexual at the same time, in fact you need to be. Being subtle means not whipping your johnson out in public, it means being a soft and gentle. Don't eye-**** women so hard when you are doing your eye contact flirting, instead eye-make-love to them instead! Feel me?

Talk Soon

Jake