Saturday, May 28, 2011

Do Women Like Facial Hair?


One question a lot of guys ask me is "Do women like facial hair?" And it's a good question, I mean after all what's the point of growing a beard, mustache or goatee, if women aren't going to like it.

The truth is that some women do like facial hair a lot and others say they hate it... So you can't please everybody.

My general rule of thumb when I'm advising a client about whether or not to rock facial hair is whether or not the facial hair actually makes the guy look cooler than he would look without it.

Most guys facial hair unfortunately makes them look worse, so in most cases I end up telling guys to shave that crap off of their faces.

So if you are considering whether or not to wear facial hair this is what I'd tell you:

First, feel free to experiment. After all, you only live once. Why not find out how you look with some mutton chops or even a full beard. For all you know it could be a great look for you. So grow a beard and then go out and see what kind of reactions you get. Then try shaving it down into a goatee and see how the ladies like that. Remember, the great thing about facial hair is that it isn't permanent.

Second, No matter what kind of facial hair you try make sure to keep it neat. Unless the woman in question is a total deadhead hippy stoner, almost no girl in the world likes a dirty unkept beard. That's just grody. So keep it clean and trim around the edges every day or two to keep it looking cared for.

Third, The question shouldn't really be do women like facial hair, it should be are women ATTRACTED to facial hair. The truth is women say many things that aren't necessarily true. On a concious level a woman may THINK she dislikes facial hair, but she will actually be very attracted to you with a beard... Girls can be funny like that.

So play around with it and see what kind of feedback you get. Personally my girlfriend loves it when I have facial hair, but I find it scratchy and uncomfortable so I generally stay pretty freshly shaven...

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Get Laid Or Die Trying Review


So the guys at RSD sent me a copy of Jeff Allen's new book Get Laid or Die Trying... I was pretty psyched that they sent me a free book, as I've never really talked to anyone in that company or anything like that. Anyhow, I thought the least I could do was post up a little Get Laid or Die Trying Review here and let you guys know about this book...

So, the first thing you should know is that this is NOT an ebook, in fact it's a really nice hardcover black book with some nice gold leaf style lettering, which I thought was really cool. Also, the price tag on mine said 25 bucks which is really pretty inexpensive compared to all the PUA ebooks guys are charging big bucks for and you don't even get a physical book...

Anyhow, I went by my PO Box the other day when I was out doing errands with my girlfriend. I showed it to her, and she was also impressed by the look of the thing. In fact she wanted to know more so I decided to read her the first page and get a female opinion...

We were both like "Damn this guy is a good writer, and funny as hell!"

I read a lot of "how-to dating guides" for my business, and while they usually (hopefully) have some entertainment value to keep me awake, most are pretty dry. So this book is really refreshing, because it's just full of funny raunchy stuff. I don't want to give too much away, but Jeff get nasty in this book... And he does some dirty, dirty deeds!

I can say that without a doubt Jeff has done far more crazy crap than myself in this arena...

He's got a quote in there towards the beginning where he says something like " I want to experience the nastiest, dirtiest sex possible" or something to that effect.

So, to be honest I haven't finished the book yet (it's over 300 pgs), but I'm very happy with it and look forward to finishing it up soon.

It's fun read, and although it's not really a "how to book" it's most definitely got an educational aspect to it. you can pick up a copy of Get Laid or Die Trying: The Field Reports here